Sunday, March 6, 2016

In the beginning...

 This journey of love for me started  back in November of 2015  when I decided  that I had had it  up to my ears  with the relationships I had been having here in the US  and wanted to find a new direction .  it seems like  every 4 to 6 months I would slap on my love radar  and  if there  was a psychotic female in a 500 mile radius  I would be on her doorstep saying "I'm feeling too good about myself can you please knock me down a few notches". To really tell the story in full I would have to  go way back  to when my friend Willobee met  is now wife Jennifer .  back then we had nearly the same luck at love and we worked around each other  nearly daily .  Will introduced me to a website  blossoms.com  which is an online dating site to meet women in other countries .  Will had met an amazing woman that turned his life around and gave the man a permanent smile on this site and I can not find words to express how happy I am for both of them to this day. Although this idea intrigued me at the time I still thought I knew better  and I kept dating here in the US . Needless to say that did not go well  and after a couple of more failed relationships  I decided  to fill out a profile  at blossoms.com  or as it's otherwise called cherry blossoms .  I filled out my profile and tried to make it as complete as possible , after all I know what I'm looking for, I know what I want,  and I know what I need .  I had many very pleasant conversations on the site to start off with  but on December 27th I found a profile that absolutely stunned me .  Lorebel  was intelligent ,  active, and beautiful .  One of  the biggest problems that I have had in the past in relationships  is finding somebody  that is as active  and likes to have fun,  at least fun by my definition.  At the end of this post  I want to put Lorebel's profile from cherry blossoms its was eye catching in the desert of one sentence profiles out there. Many of the profile there  had amazing pictures but one sentence  was all they put for the profile text .  I guess in hindsight my profile was a little bit long compared to everybody else's , it was almost like a book .  but for those that made it to the end of it they knew exactly what I was looking for  in no uncertain terms  because after the luck I've had  I was not going to settle .  Bell is far from settling she's an amazing woman ,  she has  a beautiful heart and soul , she's absolutely gorgeous , she's kind, and loving . I am blessed to have her in my life.

 The idea for this blog  came up recently in a conversation between the two of us.  It's my hope that not only can we use this in our k1 visa process ,  but down the road it might help others understand the process and know what's needed  so that they can have  their dream come true. I will be back tracking for a little bit  to let everybody know what happened between there and here  and with hope  we get caught up and can use it as a journal as time goes on .  I will be opting Bhel on the site so she can post ,  and we welcome comments and questions as time goes on .

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